BDSM Skills & Safety,  Sexuality Education, and Identity Exploration

BDSM Skills & Sexuality

  • Foundational Concepts: Consent, Communication, Negotiation, & Planning Playtime
  • How to Find and Explore Your Kinks
  • Good, Game, Giving (GGG): When your Partner Enjoys Something you Don’t
  • Fantasy & Role Play: Negotiation, Character Development, & Getting Into It
  • Pet Play & Pet Training
  • Food Play and Food Service
  • Learning the Ropes:
    • ~ Connecting with the Rope and your Partner
    • ~ Single Column & Double Column Ties for Beginners
    • ~ Shibari Starter Kit: Ties which can be applied to box ties, chest harnesses, and more
    • ~ Rope Techniques for Me: Learning ties helpful for your specific bondage goals
  • Impact Toys 101: Spanking, Paddles, and Canes (oh my!)
  • Impact Toys 201: Floggers and Whips
  • Rough Body Play 101: Slap and Punch
  • Sensation Toys Demo: Intro to a variety of sensation toys and tools utilizing demonstration
  • Hot Wax Play
  • Biting Techniques
  • Cigar Play
  • Needle Play for Beginners
  • Psychology of a Sub & Styles of Submission
  • Sub Training: How to Sculpt a Satisfying D/s Relationship
  • Dom Training: More than Tricks—Developing a Successful Attitude
  • Non-Monogamy, D/s, & Other Non-Traditional Relationship Arrangements
  • Workshops Created Specifically for You: give Creature an idea of what you’re looking for—they love creating new material and have a wide variety of skills and interests…

Contact to book a workshop, consultation, group event, or private coaching session today

PAST INTENSIVE (Future Dates TBD): Dominance Development Seminar

Dates: January 24 — January 26, 2020 (4pm Friday — 4pm Sunday)
(Snow Dates: January 31 — February 2)
$1200/person (includes meals and bedding option: details below)

Instructors: Mistress Couple & Creature Sir
Location: Star and Snake
Center Harbor, NH

Who this course is geared toward:

  • Professional Dominants who wish to expand their knowledge base.
  • Private and lifestyle players wanting to learn or develop Dominance skills.
  • Individuals of any skill level or persuasion interested in learning more about Dominance and D/s relationships are welcome.

Topics of study in our 20-hour newly updated course includes:

Friday
4-6:30 Understanding Submissive Archetypes
6:30-7:30 DINNER
7:30-9 Finding your Relationship with & Wielding Power (Part 1)
9-11 Dungeon Tour & Personal Exploration
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Saturday
9-10 BREAKFAST
10-12 Finding your Relationship with & Wielding Power (Part 2)
12-1 LUNCH
1-3 The Art of Impact: Communication and Techniques for Play
3-4 BREAK
4-6 The Art of Bondage
6-7 BREAK (Dress for Dinner and Playtime)
7-8 DINNER
8-11 Mini Play Event ~ Demos, Practice time, & Play, oh my!
(Students who have partners in the area are welcome to invite them to attend this portion of the seminar)
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Sunday
10-11 BREAKFAST
11-1 Fetish and Fantasy;
The Art of Scene Crafting
1-2 LUNCH
2-4 The Art of Discipline and Punishment;
Wrap up: Lingering Questions & Hands-on Topics

As always, the weekend will be accompanied by trusted trainees and subs who will be offering their insight, expertise, and even bodies to practice on! Apply for admission to our Dominance Development Seminar here!

Tuition Details: $1200/person

Boarding: Meals are provided. (As is coffee & tea service, and a selection of healthy snacks.)

Room: Beds are limited. Lodging at the venue we teach in is not guaranteed with tuition. You have the option to room at the venue as long as we have beds available (first come, first serve). We find the cohesion and energy of the group is best when we’re predominantly staying together over this intensive weekend. However, if you are a person who needs or desires a more private or solitary space to unwind, or if you have a partner in tow, there are definitely AirBnB options, and a hotel is located within walking distance. You are responsible for booking and paying for your own room if you are not assigned a bed at the venue.

Payment: To reserve your spot, a 50% deposit must be received no later than two weeks prior to the event (January 10, 2020). Balance is due upon arrival to the venue. Payment options will be sent to you after your application has been submitted and reviewed.

Snow Date & Inclement Weather Policy: No refunds are offered as a result of inclement weather. We are not planning to cancel this event (if at all possible). Knowing that late January in New England can be unpredictable, we have scheduled a snow date in advance. Should we need to cancel the event due to inclement weather, we plan to simply push the date back a week and meet from January 31st — February 2nd. If you cannot make that snow date, we’re happy to apply your deposit to a future workshop. We teach this curriculum several times a year.

Early Bird Discount: We’re happy to offer 10% off to students who are signed up and have paid their deposit at least one month in advance (offer expires: 12/23/2019).

To apply or get on the waiting list for our upcoming seminars: Register Now

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About the instructors:
Creature Sir: In this era of #metoo where we are striving as a society to understand and take consent seriously, I believe building one’s communicative fluency is as fundamental to picking up a flogger as practicing good form is for when it’s thrown.

I’ve been a Sexuality Educator for 20 years, BDSM Skills and Safety Instructor for 6 years, and a Professional Dom for 3. I’ve developed curriculum for, taught, and co-taught at a number of kink conventions, private events, dungeons, festivals, colleges, and one-on-one with individuals over the past 20 years in the sexuality industry. I am trans, queer, a career performance artist, and I also teach workshops in queer politics, drag, gender performance, and identity. Parallel to my artistic career, I also produce events centered on kink & BDSM for couples, groups, and individuals.

For as long as I can remember I’ve been a sex, BDSM, gender, and identity nerd. I’m quite passionate about these subjects. It’s been a joy to help shape the Dominance Development Seminar curriculum. You can learn more about my professional offerings at: www.CreatureKink.com, or support my artistic work at: www.Patreon.com/CreatureKPW. I hope to see you in January!

Mistress Couple: As the Head Mistress of long-running well established dungeon, I ran the Master/Mistress-in-Training program that produced some of the world’s best professional and lifestyle Dominants. While this was an extensive process (1-2 years of immersive experience to become a fully realized Dominant), I realized that many people are not able to make such a serious time commitment.

For this reason, I developed a weekend workshop as a primer for those who would like to embark on a deep exploration of their Dominant personality and hone their technical skills. I’m happy to share the expertise I’ve drawn from 6 years experience as a Professional Dominatrix, Couple’s Coach, and BDSM Educator over the course of this workshop weekend. To learn more go to: www.MistressCouple.com.

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Other Workshops: Theater, the Artistic Process, and Identity

  • Drag King 101 and 201
  • Radical Gender Theater
  • Gender and Identity Exploration
  • Finding Your Artistic Process
  • Cultivating Presence (in life and for the stage)
  • Character Creation for Storytelling: Effective Monologue Writing and Performance Skills
  • Directing: Show Direction, Performance Critique, Monologue & Character Development, and Audition Preparation (individuals, groups, and theater companies welcome)
  • Talkback with the Audience: Perfect for Post-Performance Engagements
  • Workshops Created Specifically for You: give Creature an idea of what you’re looking for—they love creating new workshops and have a wide variety of skills and interests to draw from…

Contact to book a workshop, lecture, talkback, coaching, or consultation today