The story of this kinky tomboy-next-door: In the late 1990’s, while I was in school for a BFA in acting, I started working at a woman-owned-and-run sex store. Thus began my career as a professional sexuality educator. During this time I also taught sex toy parties. My favorites were ones at colleges, including Harvard, BU Medical, Tufts, etc. By 2002 I had co-created a gender-bending performance troupe, and was living in an underground warehouse space filled with other queers and artists. I produced and performed underground theater professionally until I went to clown school and toured the country for the first time as a puppeteer… but that’s a story for another site.
Though I was exposed to kink and BDSM in my earlier years, it took me a long time to embrace exploration of it in my personal relationships (it didn’t help that I had a propensity for only dating vanilla, monogamous people in my 20s and early 30s). After a major relationship in my life ended, I reassessed my wants and needs, and saw fit to jump headfirst into the BDSM community on my own… I have never looked back. I’ve learned more about my sensuality, sexuality, and identity through kink than I had in a lifetime without it.
I began by bottoming pretty exclusively, and eventually identified as submissive. I made connections in the kink scene around Boston (eventually around the country as well), and demo bottomed at as many fetish conventions as I could get to. I wanted to try out and learn everything (years later this hasn’t changed). In 2013 I began writing a kink blog, ABCsOfKink, as a way to merge my BDSM practices with my performance art background and sexuality educator mindset.
Kinky imagery had long been a prominent part of my performance repertoire. Eventually I toured the country, living in a van with a D/s partner, performing puppet shows in schools by day, and crashing kinky affairs across the country by night. I began teaching BDSM skill workshops of my own. I found through teaching that my curiosity in Dominance awakened, and soon started out on the path of Dominating various partners, eventually taking on clients too. Around that time I’d written a solo show entitled, “NO SHAME“, and performed it while criss-crossing the country again (this time solo), winning awards, and teaching BDSM workshops to pay for food and gas as I went.
I started meeting more people who requested individual or couples’ attention, and so began offering my services as a BDSM Consultant, Coach, Teacher, and Professional Dominant. I enjoy expanding my offerings as skills develop or I’m approached with new requests.
I’m passionate about this work. A connection-slut by nature, my desire to meet people where they’re at is an important aspect of what I offer which keeps people coming back for more. Without an audience, students, clients, submissives, or readers, I don’t know what reason my creative brain would cling to quite as voraciously.
As for my name, Creature: I am one through and through. I am a gender fluid trans person, AFAB, and I engage in HRT. I love learning what our bodies are capable of—indeed, I believe the body is each individual’s most holy birthright, and we only have so many years to explore and enjoy it. I love working with people who are new to kink, those who are undecided or curious about what more is out there, and those who are well-worn with experience.
What more can we do in this lifetime but challenge one another and (consensually, responsibly) adventure? Welcome to my website. I hope you learn, enjoy, question, contact, and request…
Sincerely,
~ Creature Sir